I’m a teenager, and I’ve always wanted to learn how to play the guitar. It’s been a dream since I was a kid because I love music and the guitar means a lot in my culture (Hispanic).
The problem? My parents are not on board with getting a decent guitar. I have some money saved and suggested we split the cost—I’d pay most of it—but they insist on getting me a cheap guitar from TEMU. They even refuse to let me buy a decent used one for $70, saying it’s “too expensive.”
I’m frustrated and don’t know what to do. Should I save up all the money myself? How do I convince them this isn’t just a passing interest?
If your parents can’t afford it, maybe it’s best to save up for it yourself. I know it’s frustrating, but sometimes that’s how life is. Guitars are amazing, though—I hope you can get one soon!
This might not be what you want to hear, but try earning the money yourself. You could mow lawns, walk dogs, babysit—things like that. Small jobs can add up fast.
Zach said:
This might not be what you want to hear, but try earning the money yourself. You could mow lawns, walk dogs, babysit—things like that. Small jobs can add up fast.
That’s exactly how I got my first guitar! I fixed tires at a local gas station every Saturday. It took time, but it was worth it.
Like others are saying, save up for it yourself. Once you have the guitar, you’ll probably need lessons, too. YouTube can help at first, but having a real teacher is a game-changer.
I started learning guitar at 59, and I wish I’d started when I was your age. Keep at it!
If you save up your own money, you can choose the guitar you really want. Your parents might think this is just a phase, which is why they’re hesitant. Prove them wrong by saving up and sticking with it.
Start doing odd jobs for neighbors—mowing lawns, washing cars, babysitting. Explain to people why you’re working so hard. They’ll respect your dedication and might even help you out.
Try showing your parents that you’ve done your homework. Explain why a better-quality guitar will last longer and be worth the investment. Maybe offer to do better in school or help out more at home as part of the deal.
Explain to your parents that a used Yamaha will hold its value, while a cheap TEMU guitar won’t. Plus, many used guitars come already set up, which makes them easier to play and learn on. It’s a smarter choice overall.
@Adley
Exactly this. If you ever decide to sell the Yamaha, you’ll still get some money back. With a TEMU guitar, you’re basically throwing that money away. Talk to your parents about how it’s a better investment.
Yamaha guitars are known for being reliable and affordable. Try showing your parents reviews or comparisons to prove it’s a good choice. And yeah, save up for it yourself if you can. Don’t waste money on a super cheap guitar.
Don’t buy anything from TEMU. Save up for at least $350 if you want something decent. I got a good acoustic guitar for €650, but I also found a nice Spanish guitar for around €250. Save for something worthwhile.
If your parents think it’s too expensive, try explaining that a better guitar will last longer and save money in the long run. Sometimes cheaper isn’t better.