How do I get my parents to agree to help me buy a guitar?

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I’m a teenager who has wanted to learn guitar for as long as I can remember. Music is something I love, and the guitar means a lot to me culturally too since I’m Hispanic.

The problem is getting a guitar. My budget isn’t super tight, but I can’t cover the whole cost myself, so I’m asking my parents to chip in a bit. I’ve told them I’ll pay most of it if they help with a smaller part. I want something from a decent brand like Yamaha, but they keep insisting I get a cheap one from TEMU. They also think even a $70 used guitar is too expensive.

What can I do to make them understand this isn’t just a random hobby for me?

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If your parents can’t afford to help, then save up and buy it yourself. It might take time, but it’ll mean more to you when you get it. Good luck—guitars are awesome!

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This might not be what you want to hear, but why not try to make your own money? Mow a lawn, babysit, or do odd jobs for neighbors. It adds up quickly.

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Nova said:
This might not be what you want to hear, but why not try to make your own money? Mow a lawn, babysit, or do odd jobs for neighbors. It adds up quickly.

That’s what I did! I used to fix car tires every Saturday at the gas station and got $10 for 10 hours. It took time, but I finally saved up for my guitar.

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You can earn $80 pretty easily if you’re creative. Then the guitar will truly feel like yours because you worked for it.

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I started learning guitar at 59, and I wish I had the drive when I was your age. If you want it badly, start saving or get a small job. Also, consider finding a good teacher down the line—it makes a big difference. Good luck!

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You can afford a Lexus but not a $70 guitar? That doesn’t add up.

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Keir said:
You can afford a Lexus but not a $70 guitar? That doesn’t add up.

Who said anything about a Lexus? Also, older Lexus cars can be pretty cheap depending on the model. Let’s not make assumptions.

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Check out pawnshops. You might find a decent guitar there for a good price.

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Explain to them that Yamaha is actually a budget-friendly, reliable option. Maybe show them reviews or comparison videos. And yeah, if you can, save up more on your own. Avoid buying a super cheap guitar because it won’t last.

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Try offering to do small jobs for people. The elderly often need help with tasks like cleaning gutters, mowing lawns, or clearing out attics. They might be willing to pay a fair amount, especially if you explain you’re working to buy a guitar.

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If it’s just about learning, start with whatever guitar you can afford right now. You can upgrade later when you’re more experienced.

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Show them you’re serious about this. Do your research and explain why you need a decent quality guitar. Maybe even promise to do better in school or help out more at home to show your commitment.

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Try convincing them about the used Yamaha. It’s affordable and reliable. Maybe let them know it’s better than wasting money on something cheap that won’t last.